I had the good fortune to travel with my mom to go visit my sister.
Roughly mid 2011, my sister moved from the CA Sacramento area to West Virginia and there eventually she settled in the Philadelphia area.
Traveling is time consuming and expensive. Multiply that by the size of your family and its only affordable once a decade. Most of my adult life, my finances and career have not allowed me very much time or money to do this sort of thing. Melissa and her tribe have come out west a few times. I think over the past decade it has been 3 times, but I did not get to see her every time.
This time however, I got to join my mom for a full 7 days of fun. My mom has gone back often, and asked me if I would go with her. Heck yeah I would
At this point in the trip, Melissa and John took me to a very fun haunted house event at Pennhurst Asylum. Photos are not allowed there, and I really would have liked to have captured some of the displays. We made it back to the AirBNB my Mom and I were staying at. Most of these evenings we were all up until almost midnight. That is typical for me, but I was pretty amazed my Mom was staying up that late as well
Time for a nature walk! We picked up some sandwiches. I was promised authentic philly cheesestakes, so even though John had to go back to work, he gave this local place the blessing. So, I ordered like a tourist. The lady behind the counter asked me what I wanted, and then I peppered her with “okay but what do you recommend? What cheese would you put on?”. I feel confident in saying she hooked me up.
What can I say, it was a fantastic trip. It was the first time in a very long time that I took a trip with my Mom, and I’ll be honest… I was curious if we would remain civil with 7 days together. We haven’t been around each other that long since I lived at home. Well, I am older now and less obnoxious so we got along just fine. She went to bed early and I read. She got up at the crack of dawn and I set my alarm to make sure we could have coffee together at a reasonable time.
My nephews and niece are older. Jaden and Colten are men now. Off to college, and soon, embarking on their own lives. It was nice to see them again, talk to them like adults, and just be happy that we’re all together having a family moment. I know I don’t have a lot of rapport with Talia, and I try to make the most out of my experience with her. She’s a great kid. Between my kids and my sisters, its shocking they are ALL nice people. No sociopaths or psychopaths. We as a family have our more than fair share of issues but everyone is a kind person.
Seeing my sister and John was the best. Almost every evening we would end up at their place and just talk until the bugs showed up and it was dark. I had a hard time saying goodbye to Lewis though. And John. I asked him if we can leave Melissa out next time and he said of course.